The Death Point Of Your Career: Negative Attitude Is Your "Ten Sins".

If you have negative thoughts in your head, it's hard to make positive changes and improve your life.

The following 10 negative ideas are summed up in the workplace.

You must try to avoid the dead hole.

Death cave 1: "I think this is almost the same."

Once you are complacent, the progress of your life will stop suddenly.

No matter how good you are about something, there is always room for improvement.

Learn a new skill, develop a new hobby or master a new language, and keep your mind fresh.

Try to improve the quality of your work or reduce the time you need to complete your tasks, so that you can get more time to do fun and important things. Remember, personal growth is not dependent on your efforts but concrete actions day after day.

Death cave 2: "I will do the easy thing."

Are you scared to death about that? The problem is that it is exactly what you need to do.

Do you think companies are willing to hire employees who can only do simple things that anyone can do? Of course not.

Whether you are better selling yourself in the workplace or in order to keep fit, you have to face the fact that sometimes you have to do something you hate.

Calm down and do something you really don't want to do, because whether you like it or not, this may be the problem you need to solve.

If you don't know why you want to do something, you may be careless about it.

If you don't understand the question and you don't take the initiative to ask for it, then you may suffer.

Every task should take the initiative.

Is there a good idea to make the result better?

If your problems or suggestions can improve the final result, no one will object to stopping you.

If you always think that you are not good enough, not beautiful enough, not qualified enough, not smart enough or anything like that, then this inferiority complex will be revealed from your words and actions.

Since you don't believe in yourself, why do others believe you?

Read more, think more, identify your strengths, and confidently say that you are good at something.

Don't make excuses to say what you can't do, and find reasons for what you can do.

People always say, "people are vulnerable," but this is totally ridiculous.

You can be as strong as iron.

Death cave 5: "there's no way to do that."

Do not imply that you will fail - because psychological hints often come true.

Death cave 6: "I am not a good man."

Everyone makes mistakes.

No matter how sorry you feel about yourself, it is useless to blame yourself for the past and even make you feel more guilty.

Whether eating something that should not be eaten or saying something that is not to be said is still wrong, and it is wrong to make mistakes.

If you have made an apology and explanation, let it pass.

Putting energy into the future is the beginning of progress.

Death cave 7: "what do people think of me?"

Although you should try to get along well with the people around you, you don't have to bend your nature in order to please others.

Please embrace the true self and show the true self to others.

If others do not like the real you, it is also their problem and loss.

Death cave 8: "when the time is right, I will do it."

There is no such thing as "perfect timing" in the world.

If you continue to wait for the perfect time to move to a new city, chat with the bar counter or start a new fitness program, you will never take action.

Give yourself a little challenge and get out of the comfort zone.

Although the comfort zone makes you feel safe, what's the point of daydreaming about what you've never done before?

Death cave 9: "I hope to see more..."

You know, the slender magazine models you envy may be people who have to tolerate strict diet or do physical exercises for weeks or months to get the picture done.

In other words, ordinary people can't have that shape.

Accept your body and exercise your body, but don't compete with those who can't reach you.

Cave 10: "nobody cares."

No, someone cares.

Even if you are not in harmony with your family now, I don't believe they really don't care about you.

If you haven't contacted your friends for a long time, call me in the past, I bet they will be very happy to hear your voice again.

Your position in others is far less important than you think.

Send an email or write a letter to an old friend who has not been contacted for months or years.

Call your uncle, aunt or cousin when you are a child.

Join the network alliance or information group, and make some new friends who are like-minded.

You are not alone - absolutely not!