Harvard Manager'S Communication Etiquette -- Address And Topic (1)

Although it is a very simple thing to call a person's name, but as long as we pay attention to the complex name of modern address, we will understand that a proper and proper form of address will often play a subtle role, and at least it will not cause an unpleasant incident due to misuse.

Some people like to call a gentleman, someone likes to call a lady.

Some women who are active in society, though married, are still not happy to surname their husbands, but prefer others to call her a certain lady.

Others even call her a certain gentleman.

Before you visit her, you'd better investigate clearly, so as to avoid any delay. If someone introduces you, you should follow the appellation method used by the referee, and you must not be smart enough to change it without authorization.

The word "Mr." is the most common, and even can be used to call all senior positions. When you feel that you do not have the need to call him a title, or if you do not know how to address him, you call him a gentleman. When you call a military governor in a title, you don't have to call out the other's surname.

Commander in chief is enough for three words. In the same place, is there second commander-in-chief in addition to him? For the chairman, the headmaster and so on, unless he has the presence of two directors or principals at the same time, his surname is added.

Some people were mayor ten years ago. Now they also like to be called mayor. If you are the host of a dinner party, you can break the serious air of the meeting in a suitable situation, so that the guests will feel more free and happy by your suggestion.

The most difficult thing to talk with people is what topics to talk about.

The most common misconception about topics is that only those exciting and exciting ones are worth talking about.

So they searched painstakingly, hoping to find some anecdotes, thrilling deeds, or insanity experiences, and the most extraordinary cases.

This type of topic, though it is the most interesting sound of ordinary people, and can tell such a pleasant event at the time of conversation, no matter what the listens, or the speaker, is a satisfaction.

But there are not many such things. Some of the news that has shocked the society does not need to wait for you to say that others have heard it.

Even if you have experienced some special events in your own life, you can't talk about it all over again.

Because the story you told on a particular occasion is not necessarily suitable for others.

Therefore, you think that only the most extraordinary things are worth talking about, then you will often feel that you have nothing to say.

Some people often want to talk about some abstract philosophical theories or atomic bombs.

But even if you are well prepared for this kind of problem, it is very difficult to find a conversation person who has the same interest with you. Therefore, on most occasions, you will feel that you have nothing to say.

Any topic is good conversation material. As long as we pay more attention to our daily life, you can talk about football, basketball and badminton. You can talk about food, talk about drinks, talk about the weather; you can talk about life and talk about love; you can talk about compassion, talk about responsibility, talk about truth, Tan Guangrong; you can talk about the stock market and talk about popular clothes; you can discuss books, dramas, movies, radio programs, international news, or local problems; you can exchange views about a story or a person; you can retell the essentials of a paper you read on a magazine.

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