In The Workplace: Strive For Confidence And Courage.

Have you noticed that in meetings or other gatherings, the seats at the back are always filled first, and in front of them, there is often no one to sit.

The reason is very simple. Most people sitting in the back row do not want to be too conspicuous and afraid to face the eyes of the leaders of the unit, which is actually lack of confidence in themselves.

Starting from today, no matter what kind of gathering place, try to sit in front of it.

Only in this way can we help you to eliminate all kinds of worries about the leaders and superiors of the unit and enhance your self-confidence.

When you visit or receive guests, when you face

Or when your boss, when you encounter strangers, raise your head up, chest up, look at each other.

Usually, afraid to face each other means that the other person's existence makes you feel inferior or uncomfortable, or you are not as good as him or afraid of him. Avoiding the other person's eyes means that you feel guilty and you have done or thought of something that you don't want to be known to others, for fear that the other party will see through you.

These are all dishonest or unfriendly messages to you.

Especially at the negotiating table, it will make you look weak.

If you look at each other bravely, you will tell him that you are honest and aboveboard. Everything you tell is true and credible. It is not guilty, let the other party feel your confidence and courage, and win the respect of the other side.

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Perhaps you are a sharp witting, intelligent, intelligent person, but because of your taciturn habit, because you lack confidence in your own suggestions or questions, you dare not elaborate on your views and stand in various discussions and activities organized by the company. Every time you are just an audience, there is no spirit of active participation.

Even when talking with others normally, they are cautious, afraid to say something wrong, and offend people.

If you go on like this for a long time, you will feel that you are getting farther and farther away from us, and you will lose self-confidence and become more and more inferiority.

In fact, from a positive point of view, if you speak as much as you can, you will increase your confidence and speak more easily next time.

Do not worry too much about your speech, your views will be opposed, because someone will support your opinion.

If you do not speak out, then who will know your thoughts and who will consider your feelings?

There are many good ideas and ideas, especially

On the improvement and renewal, you have designed everything, but are reluctant to take action. All day long, if you fail, what do you do and lack of confidence in your ability to work.

Do not go to communicate with colleagues and superiors, until others act and succeed, only then know regret.

If you go on like this, all your efforts will be wasted. Similarly, you will feel that you are worse than others, and you will be even less confident in yourself.

If we think the right way, we must act immediately and find problems, we can adjust them and improve them.

Opportunities are available to everyone. Success is not waiting to come out. Worry can not solve problems. Action alone is the best way to change the status quo.

Many times, action, changing posture and speeding up can change a person's mental state.

Quick action and procrastination are also important yardsticks for measuring a person's self-confidence and inferiority complex.

Laughter is a driving force, but also a very effective heart medicine. Laughter can cure your inferiority complex, defuse your hostility to others and relieve your tension and fatigue.

When you get up every morning, don't forget to remind yourself that today I want to smile to face everything in my work life.

Remember: no matter what the circumstances are.

Laughter can solve problems better than worry.