How To Eliminate Barriers In Interpersonal Communication

Stubbornness is a paranoid personality disorder.

Such people are sensitive, suspicious, jealous, overrated, uncritical, impulsive and sexist, and have no sense of humor.

Stubborn people often break up with friends, and lovers, and husband and wife disagree, father and son, and so on. Therefore, stubbornness is a great enemy of human communication.

Stubbornness can be divided into sensory obstinacy, memory persistence and stubbornness. These psychological phenomena can be integrated into one habit, forming a habit. When others destroy this habit, they will cause unpleasant, uncomfortable or even annoyed emotions to the individual, thus triggering aggressive behavior and showing strong stubbornness.

Too strong self-esteem is the foundation for the formation of stubbornness.

Self esteem, as a spiritual need of human beings, is understandable.

But some people have intelligent thinking, skillful skills, humorous and witty conversation, brilliant argumentation, noble character and modest attitude, so they can only satisfy their vanity by stubbornness, confrontation, attack, unreasonable justifiable discrimination, and so on.

This will inevitably affect normal interaction with others.

Exaggeration, arrogance, laziness and clinging to stereotypes constitute one of the elements of stubborn character.

This kind of person often displays the mood is unstable, the social adaptation is bad, is indifferent to the surrounding environment or the human, is easy to have the friction with the human, does not have the good interpersonal relationship.

His own heart, but can not be patient to listen to other people's speech, so that their psychological accumulation of no place to resolve, and finally into the mire of psychological metamorphosis.

Personal accomplishment and the object of interaction are important factors for the formation and development of stubbornness.

People who are good at self-cultivation, who are good at courtesy, flexibility or modesty and easygoing tend to change or weaken their stubbornness. Stubborn people and stubborn people will make the two sides more stubborn.

Stubbornness can be persuaded.

First of all, vanity must be overcome.

It is an objective fact that no one is perfect. There is no need to hide his shortcomings and mistakes.

Don't talk big and pretend to understand. You should focus your energy on your career, so that this abnormal "energy" of vanity can be pformed to achieve psychological balance.

Secondly, we should improve our personal accomplishment, enrich our knowledge, and free ourselves from dogmas and stereotypes.

We should respect and trust others and cultivate tolerance and attitude towards others.

Don't appreciate your achievements too much, talk about others' shortcomings, be willing to accept new knowledge and new things, and do not care about those trivial things.

Third, we should be good at restraining our own feelings and offensive language and behavior, strengthening self-regulation, and learning to use the psychological adjustment method of emotional pformation.

Take the initiative in recognizing your own mistakes, and don't stubbornly stick to your own views.