If You Really Love Her, Please Be Mean To Her (Him).

My friend, drunk one day, said to me, "do you believe it? My savings are endless to my grandson."

I replied, "I believe.

However, there is a saying in old life that children and grandchildren have children and grandchildren. You really don't have to leave so many children and grandchildren.

He smiled and said, "what is happiness? I was so scared in my first half of life that I could not let my son or grandson repeat my poverty.

I just want them to watch Jinshan and live a decent life.

What he said was true.

There are too many people around us - but we have a penny to spend with our grandchildren.

It seems that if we leave more money to them today, their days will add some sweetness and color.

Lin Zexu said a thought-provoking saying: "if my son and grandson are like me, what to leave money to do, to be rich and wise, will damage their ambition."

How could it be so clear?

If grandchildren are as distinguished as me, then I do not have to leave money to him. Virtuous men have too much money to kill their morale. If their descendants are mediocre, then I do not have to leave money to him. Stupid but having too much money will increase his fault.

But how many people can really read and practice Lin Zexu today?

There is a famous "unworthy law" in psychology, which is not worth doing. It is not worth doing well.

Imagine how a person who owns a Jinshan would be willing to sweat in the sand every day to rush for gold, and those who are "unworthy" to learn and work will be a "worthless" life.

Too many compatriots do not understand those donations to the dizzy foreign rich.

When I heard that Buffett, the world's second riches, was going to donate 99% of his personal wealth, one of my colleagues said, "then his descendants are not mad." I do not think she has heard of the story happened on Buffett and his little son: Buffett's little son, Peter, loves music. Before he moved to Milwaukee, he borrowed money from his father (which was the only time that Peter borrowed money from his father), but he was rejected.

Peter went to the bank angrily to loan money.

He said: "in the process of repayment, what I learned was far more than that from my father.

Now, my father's view is very good.

If you really love your child, you may as well be mean to him in money. Don't hurt him with a golden dagger.

Since you bring him to the world, you should value his dignity and give him the power to create.

Let him sweat, shed tears, bleed, let him run in the rain without an umbrella, let him desperately pursue the "best self", let him use his own "golden spoon" to drink to the world to the United States soup.

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