The Woman Behind Ma Yun's Success!

Many women have been complaining that their husbands can't earn money and have bad luck. In fact, many reasons do not know if you have ever thought about changing your mind wealth.

First, women must remember that the husband's mouth clothing that comes out of the tube is painful for the husband. Husband is used to pain, always do not always think of husband, and other women together do not discuss how bad his husband.

Two, you can't change him, you can influence him. A man's nature is lazy, and his nature is not very clean. You can't always ask him to go home and do this. The smallest thing is to let him do it, which will distract men from their work and increase their ideological pressure.

Three, when he comes home, you must not be busy leaving home. What he most wants to see in home is what you want to hear. What he most wants to hear is your voice. I hope to communicate with you, and I do not want to hear your nagging.

Four, women should not regard suspicion as their own judgement. Some things are not what you think. When you judge your men by imaginary situations, they are a heavy blow to men and self confidence in yourself.

Five, women should not be hedgehog in any case. If a woman often makes hedgehog, a man will not take the initiative to approach you. Hedgehog and puppy can not be in love, just like fire and grass can not be together.

Six, women should not complain about their men, nor can they abuse their men. They complain that their men are not satisfied with themselves. The effect of force is mutual, often scolding their men will get the opposite force.

Seven, love is like quicksand, and men can not catch it. Women must never try to catch men. Men who catch men are far less likely to get men's hearts. Men and women teach men not only for money, but also for face.

Eight, women must pay attention to, love men first of all to love his father and mother. Where can you fall in love with him without his father and mother? How can he appear to let you love? Don't compare the attitude of your parents to their parents.

Nine, husband and wife should be united in their efforts to break the golden rule. Women do not want to break the casserole to ask the end. Some men are in the heart of his strategy, but also his work strategy, not to speak out with you, you have to be frightened. You can understand it with your heart, but don't bother to understand it. Never do anything in front of men. Everything thinks you are the prettiest.

Ma and I were University classmates, and they took the marriage certificate after graduation. Ma Yun is not a handsome man. What I am looking for is that he can do many things that handsome men can not do: form the first English corner in Hangzhou, earn foreign exchange for foreign tourists, take classes and do part-time jobs, and become the ten outstanding young teachers in Hangzhou. However, for a long time after marriage, I was in a state of fear, because his unexpected situation was endless.

He suddenly resigned and said he wanted to do his own business. Then he opened a translation agency called Haibo in Hangzhou. The profit of the translation agency is 200 yuan a month, but the rent is 700. In order to maintain it, Ma Yun went to Yiwu and Guangzhou to buy goods, sold flowers, gifts and clothes. He worked as a peddler for 3 years, and maintained a translation agency for 3 years. Later, he did "yellow pages of China".

In this case, he suddenly told me he wanted to make 500 thousand e-commerce websites. He soon found 16 people in a group, including his colleagues, students and friends. Ma Yun told us that it would be a failure to collect all the spare cash, but if it succeeds, the return will be unthinkable. He advises me that if they are an army, I am the political commissar. If I am here, we will feel secure. So, I resigned. 18, I set foot on a ship, Alibaba.

The work in the period of creation is all day and night. What kind of idea does Ma Yun have? A phone call. He will have a meeting at home after 10 minutes. I don't understand his professional language such as B2B, C2C, search and community, but I will be very busy when they meet. They meet in the daytime, I cook in the kitchen, they meet in the middle of the night, I do night snack in the kitchen, I do the work of the handyman on the virtual duty of the Commissar. Before making any profit, 500 yuan per person per month, which is not enough to buy food, the "canteen" of the family must guarantee the opening of the group, and the quality of supper should be guaranteed. I had been a good teacher, so why did I become an old lady who poured food expenses?

After more than a year of suffering, I asked him how much money we really made now, and he showed me a finger. "10 million?" he shook his head: "100 million?" he still shook his head and told me, "1 million." "So little?" every day. Now it's 1 million of a day's profit. In the future, it will become 1 million a day's tax. "

"Son is the same as money, which one do you want?"

If he had said that the return was the present wealth, the reward would be astonishing indeed. And the reward I got was that I became the general manager of Alibaba China division. At this moment, a fire broke out in the back yard of our family - we could not control our son.

Son, it should be regarded as a victim of Alibaba. He was born in 1992, the same age as ours. At that time, when our family was crowded, there was a meeting of the more than 30 people. The smoke filled the room like a gas chamber, and the son could not come out in the room. When we were having lunch with us at work, our son grew more and more like his father, as thin as a match. Later, we became more and more busy. When our son was 4 years old, he threw in for 5 days.

Now it's finally finished, and my son is 10 years old. When we pick up our son and go home, my son says, "I'm not going home. I'm back to be bored. I'd rather stay in the net bar."

Ma Yun was very anxious this time. He talked with me that evening: "you quit, our family needs you more than Alibaba does. When you leave Alibaba, you only get a salary. But if you don't go home, your son will get worse in the future. Son and money, pick the same, which one do you want? "Look at my son's becoming like this, I'm worried, but my mind is not balanced: when I first got married, I intended to be a good wife and good mother, so he was" deceived "into the Alibaba. What does he take me for? A chess piece!

After I resigned, my son's game addiction was officially blocked, and the first shot was Ma Yun. It was summer vacation. He gave his son 200 yuan to play computer games with his classmates and play for three days and three nights. But when he came back, he had to answer a question -- find out the benefits of playing games. Three days later, when my son came back, he went to bed with a big sleep and went to sleep. Then he went back to his report: "tired, sleepy and hungry, and everywhere he was uncomfortable. The money ran out, but I didn't think of any good." "Then you still play? You can't bear to go home," said the son. With my supervision, my son slowly faded out of the online game.

At that time, it was the time when the online game was collecting money. Both Shanda and NetEase launched new games. According to Ma's style, he would not let go of any opportunity to make money. But he simply did not go online games, he said on the board: "I will not invest a penny in online games, I do not want to see my son indulge in the game I play!"

Be a happy and beautiful home woman.

My son, from primary school to junior high school, I didn't pick him up. He was carrying a schoolbag on his own to squeeze the bus. Now, I go home and do breakfast every morning, eat with my son, and drive him to school. Then I went to the farmer's market to buy vegetables. After I went home, I made two meat dishes and one soup together, and served the fruits after dinner. I packed them with a small food box divided into three layers. Then I went to my son's school gate and waited for him to finish school at noon.

After I left home for half a year, my son's performance went up 17 positions in the class. The teacher in charge also said that he not only improved his studies, but also became popular in his class. He became more and more cheerful, smiling and tolerant. He turned from a former student to a young boy.

I changed my son and my son was changing me. On weekends, he would go shopping with me. When I pass by the sea, I recommend a long dress store called "four seasons". In my mind, since I entered the Alibaba, I didn't wear long skirts. All of my wardrobes were white, silver grey or black suits. The skirts were also straight skirts, and that dress was my identity. Now, I don't have to care about that. I'm a woman at home. I can wear whatever clothes I want. My son recommended me a rose red velvet skirt with a golden rim of tassel on it, so that it would be liked.

My style of dress changed. When I am free, I will go to the Alibaba to see my former colleagues. Everyone can see my eyes are full of surprises. I am full of femininity and look much prettier than before.

Ma Yun once chatted with Yahoo Corp CEO Yang Zhiyuan. Yang Zhiyuan asked me. Ma Yun told him this: "Zhang Ying used to be a partner in my career. I have today, she has no credit and hard work, and I have always regarded her as a means of production. But now, I think, as a wife, she is more suitable for life information. " It came to my ears later, and it was absolutely not a fiction - and only a man who was full of business like him would take his wife for information. However, when the days of living materials are not bad, the days at home are dull, but every harvest is worth my repeated taste.

Postscript:

The greatness of a woman is that whether the man around him is successful or not, as long as this man has dreams, he will support him unconditionally, silently accompany him and take care of everything. And the responsibility of men is to never give up their dreams and prove to their women no matter how frustrated they are. It is right for her to support him and encourage him.