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Workplace "Good Guys" Can'T Go Too Far.

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WorkplaceGood PeopleToo Much.

If only because you are a very good "Qingdao" job search colleague, they can lighten many burdens for them and even become "victims" when they make mistakes. Obviously, such a good relationship is not worth rejoicing.

Previous

days

I called my old company to say hello to my old colleague, but my colleague's polite words confused my good mood. He complained on the phone: "the weather is so hot, no one has bought coke for us since you left."

Now, I really regret it. If I had never been in the company when I first entered the company, I wouldn't have had so much trouble afterwards.

Just enter

Qingdao

Recruitment company, I am always cautious. Every time I leave on duty, I promise that I will not be able to waste a lot of holidays, and I will be on duty for a long time. I always arrive at work at ordinary times. I usually go to work early, clean up my desk and clean up my office. I only want to say, "no breakfast, so hungry. Is there anything to fill my stomach?" I hurried to bring out the milk cereals I bought, and sent them to them.

I became a "good man" as we all know.

But with the gradual increase of work, I didn't run errands for them as before, and I complained one after another. I still had a joke on my face: "what kind of airs do you have? Come and come and help me send this material to various departments."

"Hey, go to the warehouse and help us get a packet of printing paper, and we'll wait and use it!"

  

refuse

The unreasonable demands of colleagues can also be shirk by saying "it's not my job", but it's even harder to deal with the boss if he wants you to help him with his personal affairs.

Once, my supervisor sent me to the station to pick up a relative for him. As a result, the manager came back from the door of the company and was hit by a manager. The manager asked me where to go. In order not to offend the supervisor, I said I would go out to recruit.

Later, the manager did not know where it was. It was a real thing to me. He called me to a lecture. He said that as a staff member of the personnel department, I could not do two words of integrity. How could I manage others? I left such impressions to the manager, and I would still be reluctant to stay in the company. So I handed in my resignation application, and I fell down with the word "good man" two words.

Heart: no one can see people smile, people feel that you have no personality, and you have no personality for your colleagues. There must be a certain time because of your ability or other reasons that you should not be able to do so. People feel that you are not interested enough to alienate you. You often borrow money from your colleagues for many times, and you are quick to take the time to be accustomed to it. You are forced to be in a dilemma. I think many job seekers in Qingdao have similar difficulties.

Over time, it became a "miscellaneous worker".

Therefore, it is not a good idea to find a good job in Qingdao.

Comments:

Distance produces beauty

Who is the longest time with you every day? Not your relatives, nor your friends, your colleagues.

He and you in the office face to face, shoulder to shoulder, work, eat, drink and entertain.

But when we have the concept of "private space", we can not ignore the reasonable social space and public space, and how to grasp the distance in the office is not so simple.

Of course, it is proper to have a good relationship with colleagues, but it depends on what good relationship between you and your colleagues is maintained. How do they form "goodwill" for you? If it is simply because you are a good "cowboy" colleague, it can lighten many burdens for them and even become a "victim" when they make mistakes. Obviously, such a good relationship is not fortunate.

In particular, as a newcomer to the workplace, we must remember that colleagues are not equal to friends.

Keeping an appropriate distance from your colleagues will make you look more beautiful.


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