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In August 12th, the Supreme People's Court issued the interpretation of several issues concerning the application of the marriage law of the People's Republic of China (three), which was formally implemented in August 13th (this newspaper has reported in August 13th).

As in the past, every amendment of the marriage law will cause great controversy. This time, it is a complaint made by many netizens, especially the female group. Some people even think that this is a divorce law that makes men laugh and women worry.

In response to this, the reporter invited experts to talk about the psychological effects of Domino.

- expert comments

Not the weak

Bao Hua: in recent days, there is such a widely circulated piece on the Internet: a pair of men and women, before marriage to buy 1 million yuan room, the man paid 300 thousand yuan, the remaining 700 thousand yuan, mortgage 20 years, monthly repayment 5000 yuan.

The woman takes care of the housework after delivery, and the man pays the loan.

10 years after the divorce, the two sides divorced, the property increased to 3 million yuan, the property rights were returned to the man, the man paid 40 thousand yuan loan, and 100 thousand yuan was compensated as appropriate.

The 40 year old man is old and yellow, and the woman leaves the field with 140 thousand yuan in cash. She is 40 years old.

Little Dragon Girl: This ridicule is very interesting.

A new survey of love and marriage shows that more than 60% of women want to marry a man.

This survey shows that women often choose to live in a weak position in their choice of marriage.

After the new marriage law came out, the first impression on many people is that women get married through marriage to become more and more unreliable.

First of all, it is impossible to get the ownership of a man's property through marriage. Secondly, no payment is made after marriage, even if the repayment is made together, the ownership of the house can not be obtained.

Most women will exclaim that this is unfair, but what makes you split half of the property is fair?

I think this is also a collective warning for women: it is time for women to really be autonomous.

Feng Guilin: I think the new marriage law has moved ahead of the original marriage law. We can not deny that some women in the society are too materialistic, and some women are idle and lazy.

"Rich two generation" is inferior to "potential stock"?

Baohua: even many netizens call on women: don't think about big money!

Marry a rich two generation, if the relationship is not good, after divorce itself can not be divided into many family property, may also force a woman even the courage to divorce.

It's better to find a man who agrees with each other. As long as he is a talented potential stock, he will struggle together and buy a house.

Feng Guilin: in Chinese traditional habits, men solve the housing problem.

The reality is that the more low-income men and their families are, the more vulnerable they are to economic challenges in marriage and love.

Moreover, the woman asked the man to have a room, and indeed to a certain extent, it pushed up the price of the house.

The new marriage law pays attention to this phenomenon, so that when choosing mate, we should pay attention to whether the other party has room, pay more attention to the feelings of both sides, and whether the other party has the potential and confidence to create a better life together with you.

Little Dragon Girl: as far as I know, most of the remaining men have no room and no vehicle tickets, but there is a hot heart in the sky. When they are chasing girls, they always run into a wall. In the end, they have to rely on their careers and wait until they become diamond old ladies. They no longer believe in love.

The subtext of the new marriage law is to let women never get married for the house, remove some material standards, and turn them into inner standards.

To a certain extent, it is a correction of the concept of spouse choosing.

Before marriage, men who have no room for housing will be greatly liberated from their marriage needs. They will stand on the same starting line again and accept the choice of women.

This is a test of girls' vision. Potential stocks will become the best in the market.

Looking for such a "potential stock", maybe the girl will feel the happiest.

No marriage or late marriage may increase.

Bao Hua: "men laugh, women worry." as this goes on, only more women will choose not to marry.

Little Dragon Girl: this sense of crisis is very real.

In the new marriage law, it seems a bit too simple for the house to buy and return to anyone. Assuming that the feelings are broken, the idea that the woman in the marriage will have "no one else, but also to drop some property" will be shattered.

In addition, if a woman has the burden of having children, taking care of her family and taking care of the workplace, it will make them exhausted.

If the pressure is too high to marry, it is better to not marry. Therefore, the motivation of marriage is weakened, and it may accept long-term cohabitation, or later marriage, until not married.

Feng Guilin: therefore, I do not fully agree with the new marriage law. If the marriage breaks up, it will not protect the rights and interests of women and children who are in a weak position. In the future, there should be more updated and more reasonable provisions.

Little Dragon Girl: however, the law is based on the situation of "in case". If the couple's feelings break up, the court will split up the property.

This is also a reminder to women that the biggest goal of marriage is not how much property the husband wants to prepare for you, instead of thinking about the way out. Instead, he should carefully choose and carefully manage family relationships.

Feng Guilin: it is always a deep emotional foundation for two people to really maintain their marriage for a long time.

The guarantee of marital happiness is not property, but the firm belief of the son holding hands and his son, is sincerity, trustworthiness, love and devotion.