Excellence Is Self Management.

From small to large, there are some very outstanding people around us, who embody different lights, either in academic excellence or in career, or in the affluent life of everyone's envy, or in plain sailing in love. In short, they have no disadvantage in their life, as if they were born to be lucky.

However, in fact, those who are proud of themselves are not different from us in intelligence or appearance. They are very ordinary in intelligence, and there is no special care for them in heaven.

Just because they know how to make good habits create good luck for them.

Going deep into those so-called outstanding people, it is not difficult to find that they are really different from ordinary people. Their hearts are never constrained and stubbornly persist in their ideals, so they are willing to shoulder heavy burdens. They have decisive action; they always have a positive attitude towards life; they have effective self-discipline life, and have no real life in their vanity and steadfast attitude. Therefore, they deserve to be treated by life and stand out in mediocrity.

There is an obvious line between the successful people and the others.

The boundary of this successful person is only a sign of the difference between their attitude towards life and nothing else.

The famous master of successful learning tells us that people want to be successful, they are exploring the secret of success. Actually, this is simpler than you think, because those who are successful -- Olympic athletes, business general managers, government leaders and others have an obvious boundary.

This boundary is not a special environment or a high intelligence quotient, nor a classification of higher education or talent differences.

The key to success is self-management.

The attitude of successful people includes many levels.

But the most important thing is self-confidence.

To achieve this, you must follow three important proverbs.

1., one's own behavior is responsible for all kinds of things.

Our remuneration depends on our efforts.

Perhaps there are things that you are not satisfied with in your life, and you really want to improve it.

A person who has a sense of responsibility will see his own environment and get rid of his shackles and declare his independence at the right time.

2., he discovered his talent and pursued his goals. In Shakespeare's famous drama Hamlett, the minister Pologne J told his son: the most important thing is that you must be honest with yourself. Just like the day after night, you will not deceive others if you are honest with yourself.

Pologne J is advising his son to live according to his strongest belief and ability to face different world.

At the same time, we must respect others' rights.

However, most people find themselves living in hesitation.

How do I know if I have chosen the right career or the right goal?

The results of experts in the field confirmed that it is better to know what we are good at than to make long-term plans for our parents, teachers, friends or economists.

Bill, Gates, President of Microsoft Corp, although he only graduated from high school diploma, because he did not finish reading at Harvard University he ran his computer company.

But he discovered his strengths and decided to run his own strong points. It's not surprising that he became the richest man in the world.

The trick of life is to manage your strengths.

In the coordinate system of life, if a person is in a wrong position, he will be employed in his position rather than his merits. It is very terrible that he may always indulge in humbleness and frustration.

Therefore, it is very important to maintain interest in skills. Even if it is not elegant, it may be a great fortune for you to change your destiny.

This is the same reason for choosing a career. You don't have to consider how much interest this occupation can bring to you, whether you can make you famous. You should choose the career that best helps you to do your best. You should choose the occupation that best brings your strengths into full play, so that you won't be able to work day by day with your sense of powerlessness.

This is because running your strengths can add value to your life, and managing your weaknesses will degrade your life.

Franklin said, "the wrong place to put your baby in the wrong place is waste. That's what it means.

3., the key to success is to adapt yourself to the environment.

Under pressure, many of us will become depressed and lose our yearning for life.

By drinking heavily, smoking heavily or relying on sedative agents to paralyze oneself, and try to forget many of the disappointments in real life.

Alcohol and other antidepressant drugs can temporarily slow down our fear of failure and suffering.

But it also hinders us from learning to bear these pressures.

One of the best ways to adapt to life stress is to accept them as beautiful things and accept them.

The adversity and failure of life, if we regard them as a good opportunity to practice, will help us to strengthen our immunity, like our bodies can not rely solely on drugs against germs, and our minds have to do exercises with setbacks.

The reason why successful people can do this is that they can change the definition of stress.

No fear, no escape.

They love to fight against pressure and believe that everything will be fine and they will win.

This does not mean that we should bear the pressure in silence, but we should turn the pressure into motive force.

If you just bear the weight of pressure, your body and mind are totally unable to resist pressure.

In short, the losers beg for opportunities to come. Winners are committed to pforming the status quo and laying the future.

A person's belief is optional. We all go through all kinds of hardships, but only good attitude leads to success.

We can change our attitude and then change our world, and change our destiny.

Belief can be created or destroyed.

It depends on how you think from that angle.

Human beings will be subjectively endowed with some meaning to life, some positive and some negative. The former can make people regain the broken heart and move forward. The latter may destroy the life of this person.

So you are a great horse and your own Bole!